
Nadine Mercey
Dearest Friends,
a clients asks: “if you love someone…how are you suppose to set them free?
Haven’t we’ve all shared heart ache in our life? Haven’t we all at some point reflect on others and can’t find the reasons why, when we KNOW we are suppose to move on?
I’d like to copy and paste some great conversations we’ve been having on FaceBook that helps support people in their daily quests for a better life.
from FaceBook:
Nadine Mercey oh WOW!!..talk about responsive Universe..the person that this was intended for ( and after I posted this, his ex girlfriend emailed me asking me what to do oh her end) …so how do you set someone free and move on?
February 18 at 2:24pm · A friend: I need an answer too!
February 18 at 2:36pm · Another friend: If you love them or at least care a lot for them, then you must want them to be happy. If you truly want them to be happy and they have told you they can’t be happy with you, then you must let them go. Think of this in terms of what you want (them to be happy), not what you don’t want (them to leave you). Not easy, but effective and better for you.
February 18 at 2:59pm · Another friend: Love is unconditional. Once conditions are placed, its not love anymore.
February 18 at 7:07pm · Nadine Mercey okay..love can be multi-dimensional..and it can be complicated..on this level we usually are powerful mirrors reflecting what we wanted to learn, and sometime choose not to see..if you are still reflecting on a past loved one and know the time has expired between you..reflect on the lesson..what they taught you to be to grow..and then its easier to…
let go..ACCEPTANCE is key..we all attract the appropriate experiences to bring us to this moment in time..in other words..its perfect as it is..stepping stones for what we are meant to be in the future..we are constantly aligning ourselves everyday..sometimes its hard to learn from that one person to bring you along on the journey..when its time its time to embrace what you have learned and know you can fall in love with the invisible and know you ARE LOVE and will be LOVED AGAIN…wish them well, send love, and creatively visualize the ties between you being severed…finished learning the lesson?..the teacher is gone..xo
February 18 at 9:43pm · Nadine Mercey thx for all the brilliant helpful tips..we’ve ALL been here before and possibly will be here in this moment again..speaking from much experience..lol (there was the “ex”..”Prince Harming” (ugh)..oh yes “Mr. 4 Now”..)..it does get easier ..remember a belief is just a thought we keep thinking..so if we aren’t getting what we want..what should we be …
thinking…hhhhmmm…there is so much confusion as the world is getting out of the 3rd dimension and into the 4th..the new moon last Sunday has brought much love and heart ache at the same time..believe in YOU..and all will be well..grab a blankie, hot toddie, a tissue (if you will) and a great movie..and take the time to release the emotions, thoughts and feelings until you are ready to move on..everyone does it in their own spin in their own time..be patient with yours ..and KNOW you are loved!!! ..ALL is WELL..and life is suppose to be FUN!!!..xo
February 18 at 9:50pm · Nadine Mercey what do you do to get by until the hurt goes away?
February 18 at 9:56pm · Another Friend: How do you “get by” when you re full of anger and broken? Emotions are like a roller coaster. Is it better to just go backwards to get the pain to stop?
February 18 at 9:59pm · Another Friend: Do your best to continue life? go out, try to reconnect with people who have influenced your life before love? Though, I feel, for love, the hurt may not go away, it will become a part of you and shape who you become from that experience, there’s no cut and paste answer for this, because love is so many things to so many people. For some it may be …
somewhat easy, for others it will be a life long struggle to move on. But there are so many coping strategies, some better, some worse, I suppose the only suggestion that has worked in my life is to open doors and try to live. We can’t stop the world, and it won’t stop for us.
February 19 at 11:21am · Nadine Mercey well said!…the question is what do you want to “ask” for in life to be..what do you want to manifest?..what do you want to feel..we need to change the way we think ..we need to beleive we can be worthy of so much MORE..thats the only way it will come..until then..hang out with positive people, read positive books, see positive movies (comedy … works)..buy more makeup and hair gell (cheaper than new shoes..kidding..) what ever it takes to make you happy for the moment..one day at a time..and realize in a “snap shot picture” today all is well and you have what you need…
..please do move forward..the past is past.. hope this helps
February 19 at 12:27pm · Another friend: Imagine a river. How the water flows down its path. It has its bends and curves along the way. The water flows fast as in the rapids and it flows calmly. But you never see a restriction. Same with love. It has its bends and turns, it rapids and it calmness. But it should never have a restriction. Just let it flow
February 19 at 12:50pm · Nadine Mercey excellent ..creative visualization is everything..having an intention that is positive and not being attached to the outcome is opening yourself to the unlimited potential in all of us. nothing is specific (and not always what it seems to be)..go with “the flow” and the flow will respond quicker as you aren’t blocking what is meant to come to you in response to your needs..feel the flow dahliin’..anyone else want to add to help our friends move forwards?
February 19 at 4:51pm · Nadine Mercey first instinct is to gravitate to another relationship..
…generate your own warmth and keep your distance from “the other porcupines”..till you get your spine ♥
February 19 at 5:09pm · Another friend: what if the other person wasn’t ready to let go? and then doesn’t know how to open up to the situation because hurt now surrounds them?
February 19 at 6:29pm · Another Friend: back to you Nadine. I’m stumped on last post. All I can think is what would Dr Phil say to that.
February 19 at 7:02pm · Nadine Mercey everyone has choice..we need to respect others choices as well..even if it hurts ..for you, its not as it seems (so a bit of a twist for you..)..I hope you called and followed up with your instinct…to get out what you needed to say dahlin’..getting rid of that residual energy is everything for you..enlightening so to speak..you will learn more from each other..(whoops that was my outside voice..)..I think you know ♥
February 21 at 2:56am · i did follow up, and it was everything i wasnt expecting. a lot floating around, so much clouding my thoughts. i dont feel so much hurt anymore, but i do feel unsure. i felt better once i respected the words that were being said and listened instead of pressing forward. thank you for all the words of advice and comments, it really helped me to be … opening and really listen and hear what was being said, once i finally clued in to take a step back. … however, there are still questions unanswered.
February 21 at 9:47pm · Nadine Mercey, so glad you are feeling better, things will get clearer..have a perfect day ♥
If you are on Facebook, please ask me to be your friend and join in on some interesting conversations!!!
just sang this to a famous… actor over the phone..lol (okay it was a great way to end a serious conversation about his break up)..those Hollywood break ups…
~ hope you find a little love to raise you vibration to heal
with love
Nadine